The Way I Am | swayingyou.jouwweb.nl

At some point in my life,

I had a sweet submissive man as my partner. Of course, this was only for our bedroom! Outside the private space I was a “democratic” woman doing her best to make her man to be and look as a respectable and self-confident individual, both socially and professionally.

I tried to be an online Mistress but got very disappointed, met mostly moody men, fake subs or demanding slaves, so I gave up.

If you'd like me to guide your submissive side, by all means, let me know! Present yourself nicely in a message/text chat after the greetings lines. I'll take the time to read and respond. But please, don't abuse my time or my kindness!

Briefly defining myself

The followings are equal, none prevails but simply alternates.

Sensuality... Not only sexually! We came on this Earth to enjoy life in all its aspects! Whatever makes my heart and body happy, I go for it!

Dominant side... only in the private space, outside of it I tend to make my man to look "the best"... Pretty democratic, isn't it?

Beauty... I need beauty to surround me, everywhere, on the streets, facades and buildings, on faces I see, in a smile, a look, in gestures, the beauty of a soul reflected in someone's voice...

The Relationship We Might Have

Even I am a Mistress, and you are a submissive man, a relationship will not necessarily follow; I must be attracted to you, and you attracted to me.

Please, do not expect me to "Dom" you the same way your ex-Mistress did it.

In our relationship I do whatever I desire within the bounds of basic common sense and limits we mutually agreed.

It is not all about me! But if you were a slave, there would be no limits to bind me, and it would be all about me!

You are my partner!

I shall not ask you to immerse yourself in cruel and useless pain or intense constraints... you are a human being, I treat you as an equal person first, and then as a sexually submissive partner. Clear? Now see yourself the same way!

Timing & Affection

I fully understand your submissive side needs to feel valued, worthy of my attention and care. So don't get me wrong when I’m saying I have my own life out there, socially and professionally, and I need to function “at the max”, and so do you, whatever your job is! Therefore, timing for us is important: be specific when and how long are you available for our relationship. I shall do the same, I promise.

Yet, I have another request, and I trust you will be one hundred percent honest in complying with it: do not take unnecessary or foolish risks to come online to be with me!

Public Play is not my "field"

Please, do not expect me to put pictures of you out there, or to expose you. I would never do that! Our relationship stays only between the two of us, of course, in a virtual realm... where hidden desires are secretly fulfilled, far away from this "awfully vanilla flavored" world.

I do not "Dom" your relationship with the world, the way you interact with people or the way you choose to be in your social life, I accept and respect the way you "give" yourself to others.

I love. I care. I respect.

This page is for you to better know me, the way I am in my "real" life. No, I do not encourage you to ask me to have you in "real" my dear, alas, this would be highly unlikely ... but I cannot stop you hoping.